One of my fav shots...Grandma and grandson spending some quiet time together...enjoying each other's company....sweet....
haloha
15 years ago
Sunday, November 14, 2004
Saturday, November 06, 2004
What temperament are you?
When my ex-boss resigned, on the last day he told me that I am a melancholy person. At that time, I didn't know what that was. I looked up in dictionary.com and found this description
Sadness or depression of the spirits; gloom: “There is melancholy in the wind and sorrow in the grass” (Charles Kuralt).
Pensive reflection or contemplation.
Archaic.
Black bile.
An emotional state characterized by sullenness and outbreaks of violent anger, believed to arise from black bile.
Then I told him, aiyah...why do you say that I am depressing? Then he told me, that melancholy does not mean depressed lah. And he said in his religion, they look people by four quadrants of temperaments, which are Sanguine/Melancholy/Choleric/Phlegmatic. So i asked him what does melancholy means, and he said, he ain't telling much, just these words, gifted and self-sacrificing and told me to buy a book by the name of "Why you act the way you do" by Tim Lahaye to find out more. So mean.....I couldn't find that exact book, but I found another book written by this author describing these four temperaments.
And then, I found this website, a test to find out what temperaments you are....
http://www.oneishy.com/personality/personality_test.php
Go try it out. And find out what temperament you are. Quite interesting.
And my results were :
hcl,
Your personality is Melancholy Phlegmatic. You may want to review the definitions
Your scores are below
Overall:
Melancholy:22
Phlegmatic:8
Sanguine:6
Choleric:4
Strengths:
Melancholy:11
Phlegmatic:4
Sanguine:2
Choleric:3
Weakneses:
Melancholy:11
Phlegmatic:4
Sanguine:4
Choleric:1
COOL. So my boss was right ...hahhahah...He told me that when he meets someone, he usually like to judge and decide which temperament they are. But he found it hard to see mine. He only managed to decide, a month before he left. Hmm and i wonder what he meant by that. Hahhaha. He made it sound so sad..He told me, that was the only thing that he wants to tell me before he leaves...and told me, to choose my friends properly. AND NOW, i wonder even more, as for what he meant by that. Hahahha he is so mysterious. Ah well....I'll ask him more when i talk to him....He told me a lot on the night that he left, revealed a lot about myself, of which i did not even know. I think he is truly a good educator. Here's to you, my teacher.....:)
Sadness or depression of the spirits; gloom: “There is melancholy in the wind and sorrow in the grass” (Charles Kuralt).
Pensive reflection or contemplation.
Archaic.
Black bile.
An emotional state characterized by sullenness and outbreaks of violent anger, believed to arise from black bile.
Then I told him, aiyah...why do you say that I am depressing? Then he told me, that melancholy does not mean depressed lah. And he said in his religion, they look people by four quadrants of temperaments, which are Sanguine/Melancholy/Choleric/Phlegmatic. So i asked him what does melancholy means, and he said, he ain't telling much, just these words, gifted and self-sacrificing and told me to buy a book by the name of "Why you act the way you do" by Tim Lahaye to find out more. So mean.....I couldn't find that exact book, but I found another book written by this author describing these four temperaments.
And then, I found this website, a test to find out what temperaments you are....
http://www.oneishy.com/personality/personality_test.php
Go try it out. And find out what temperament you are. Quite interesting.
And my results were :
hcl,
Your personality is Melancholy Phlegmatic. You may want to review the definitions
Your scores are below
Overall:
Melancholy:22
Phlegmatic:8
Sanguine:6
Choleric:4
Strengths:
Melancholy:11
Phlegmatic:4
Sanguine:2
Choleric:3
Weakneses:
Melancholy:11
Phlegmatic:4
Sanguine:4
Choleric:1
COOL. So my boss was right ...hahhahah...He told me that when he meets someone, he usually like to judge and decide which temperament they are. But he found it hard to see mine. He only managed to decide, a month before he left. Hmm and i wonder what he meant by that. Hahhaha. He made it sound so sad..He told me, that was the only thing that he wants to tell me before he leaves...and told me, to choose my friends properly. AND NOW, i wonder even more, as for what he meant by that. Hahahha he is so mysterious. Ah well....I'll ask him more when i talk to him....He told me a lot on the night that he left, revealed a lot about myself, of which i did not even know. I think he is truly a good educator. Here's to you, my teacher.....:)
Sunday, September 19, 2004
The route to growing up....
After the dinner at Chillis on Friday night, it just made me realise that I have been friends with my group of buddies for more than 5 years dy....knew them when i was 18....Oooo i think it's 6 years dy....Wow....that's quite amazing lar...When I look at everyone, I guess we turned up pretty ok....everyone has got their jobs, whether it's a happy or a sad one....at least everyone has got a career....and a career path that they are all after... there's papaya who's living up to his dreams...very proud of you....then there's shark, who has got a new career path now...then there's godzilla/ribena :P who seems to me, quite happy with her life now.....then IceD who has just started a new career path too...piggy who's working out her career path too, with a recent promo...then there's me, who has got new roles and responsibilities to live up to...and also some stuffs to sort.....
Amazing lar...we're all....Growing up....Well, i guess in some ways, we're still a kid at heart....trying to fit into the adult world...with responsibilites, goals, aims and dreams....Dreams to live....and dreams to fulfill....Good lar...very proud of the gang......
Suddenly thought about having a trip with the gang again...Don't know why this crossed my mind...mayb because there's matta fair going on :p I hope to be able to visit some other countries with them....can go sight seeing with them....and observe the beauty of other countries....shall see if this would happen anytime soon :) before that, let me save some money first..
hope to plan another dinner outing with all u guys...but this time, no more chillis ok? :P
Amazing lar...we're all....Growing up....Well, i guess in some ways, we're still a kid at heart....trying to fit into the adult world...with responsibilites, goals, aims and dreams....Dreams to live....and dreams to fulfill....Good lar...very proud of the gang......
Suddenly thought about having a trip with the gang again...Don't know why this crossed my mind...mayb because there's matta fair going on :p I hope to be able to visit some other countries with them....can go sight seeing with them....and observe the beauty of other countries....shall see if this would happen anytime soon :) before that, let me save some money first..
hope to plan another dinner outing with all u guys...but this time, no more chillis ok? :P
Friday, August 20, 2004
Back...
Am back from Singapore....I think i had a good week in Singapore...Well work aside...(dealing with clients aka aunties ain't that fun)....i think i ate like a pig in Singapore.....everynight, i went out with my spore collegues, and ate till we wanna puke....i have never eaten so much in my life before...hahahhaha
even met up with some ex-collegues who's residing in spore for a dinner and drink after that....missed them a lot...it's good to know that i have so many frens in spore...:P
hahahh ou yeah...it was also my first time....for a business trip in spore, that i had ppl receiving me from the airport...an ex-sporean collegue actually came all the way from Woodlands to pick me up...and also not to mention my KL collegue who tagged along with him...quite touched ler....
Well...i am back in KL now...with more problems in hand....heard a few shocking news today....including my fren who had a miscarriage :(...din noe how to deal with the news....with two of my fren's grandmother passing away....and of course more news about my problems....
My sister actually asked me, why is my life so complex...I just told her, only GOD knows....or mayb i made my own life complex? like what piggy said...
yeah...maybe the latter....well i just can't help it...for every action that i take, i gotta think properly....i can't be taking everything so simple. Mayb i need to relook at my life...how i deal with my life everyday.....and how i look at things...
Sigh, but i have problems in my hands right now, and i gotta settle those first, before i relook at my life...God, please give me someone i can relate to..someone whom i can talk to....thank u.....
even met up with some ex-collegues who's residing in spore for a dinner and drink after that....missed them a lot...it's good to know that i have so many frens in spore...:P
hahahh ou yeah...it was also my first time....for a business trip in spore, that i had ppl receiving me from the airport...an ex-sporean collegue actually came all the way from Woodlands to pick me up...and also not to mention my KL collegue who tagged along with him...quite touched ler....
Well...i am back in KL now...with more problems in hand....heard a few shocking news today....including my fren who had a miscarriage :(...din noe how to deal with the news....with two of my fren's grandmother passing away....and of course more news about my problems....
My sister actually asked me, why is my life so complex...I just told her, only GOD knows....or mayb i made my own life complex? like what piggy said...
yeah...maybe the latter....well i just can't help it...for every action that i take, i gotta think properly....i can't be taking everything so simple. Mayb i need to relook at my life...how i deal with my life everyday.....and how i look at things...
Sigh, but i have problems in my hands right now, and i gotta settle those first, before i relook at my life...God, please give me someone i can relate to..someone whom i can talk to....thank u.....
Saturday, August 14, 2004
Lost Hope
Once I fought a battle, a battle against depression
It was heavy, tears, pain, suffer
It all seemed to be gone forever
but it was lurking for another strike.
Thinking you have your life in your hands
but things still go wrong, like it used to be
maybe it were mistakes I had to learn
then why am I learning them again
I open my hand and fall down
I close my eyes and let me fall
I feel the blackness more and more
surrounding my entire body
No idea when I will give up
but the day will come
that it was too much
when the door will be closed forever
Does the world know, do they know
that they are making me unhappy
not even a small wish will be given away
am I that bad...
Sigh, I feel so BLUE. To me, our life is like a game of chess. Sometime in life, we would make the right moves, the innocent moves and the wrong moves. I think I have made the wrong move in my own game of chess. Please give me the chance to undo my move, and be guided to the right moves. Dear God, I have made the wrong move, please, give me the strength and guidance to the right move and victory :(
Anyways, i will be going to Singapore for a week. I hope that when I come back, everything would be ok and all my problems would be solved. For all my dear friends who have made their right moves in their own game of chess, I wish them the Best Of Luck. Please, please, please God, I pray to you, to make all sorrows go away, and make my life look bright again. Please......
Once I fought a battle, a battle against depression
It was heavy, tears, pain, suffer
It all seemed to be gone forever
but it was lurking for another strike.
Thinking you have your life in your hands
but things still go wrong, like it used to be
maybe it were mistakes I had to learn
then why am I learning them again
I open my hand and fall down
I close my eyes and let me fall
I feel the blackness more and more
surrounding my entire body
No idea when I will give up
but the day will come
that it was too much
when the door will be closed forever
Does the world know, do they know
that they are making me unhappy
not even a small wish will be given away
am I that bad...
Sigh, I feel so BLUE. To me, our life is like a game of chess. Sometime in life, we would make the right moves, the innocent moves and the wrong moves. I think I have made the wrong move in my own game of chess. Please give me the chance to undo my move, and be guided to the right moves. Dear God, I have made the wrong move, please, give me the strength and guidance to the right move and victory :(
Anyways, i will be going to Singapore for a week. I hope that when I come back, everything would be ok and all my problems would be solved. For all my dear friends who have made their right moves in their own game of chess, I wish them the Best Of Luck. Please, please, please God, I pray to you, to make all sorrows go away, and make my life look bright again. Please......
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